Hand Cross Handjob Technique

Hand Cross is a handjob technique that has strokes and sensations that mimic intercourse.

Performing the Hand Cross Handjob Technique

1. Generously apply lube to your hands and rub them together so they are nice and warm.
2. Hold your dominant hand up vertically so that your fingers are pointing up and your palm is facing away from you.
3. Place your free hand horizontally with your fingers pointing east or west.
4. Lock the thumb of your horizontal hand with the thumb “V” of your vertical hand to make a cross with your hands. Both palms should be touching.
5. Curl the fingers of your horizontal hand around the pinky edge of your vertical hand to form a tube between your palms.
6. Gently and slowly lower your tube over his penis creating a snug fit. This mimics the sensation he feels when he first enters your vagina. Make sure that your vertical fingers stay pointing straight up. This is very important.
7. Start with short, slow, up-and-down strokes, making sure the ridge (bottom of your palm) of your vertical hand passes over the frenulum of his penis stimulating his penis entering and exiting your vagina over and over.
8. After a few strokes change them from short to long and deep while making sure as much of your hands are in contact with his penis.
9. Every once in a while allow your stroke to go all the way down to the base of his penis. When you do this allow your index and middle fingers to split a little so the head of his penis can go between them.
10. Once you’ve reached the base of his penis drop the “V” you’ve made by splitting your index and middle finger so they are pointing down on your way back up.
11. Once your stroke is back at the top of his penis point your index and middle fingers back up.

Note: This post is part of our Giving a Great Hand Job Series.

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