Jar Opener is a handjob technique that stimulates using a long stroke with a twist at the top and a continuous flow of sensation.
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Performing the Jar Opener Handjob Technique
- The best position for this handjob technique is sitting on your knees between his legs.
- Generously apply lubricant to your hands. After applying the lubricant, rub your hands together a little to warm them up.
- Start by wrapping your hand of choice around the base of his penis. Your thumb and index finger should be touching. The top of your hand should be facing you and your thumb should be on the other side of the base of your husband’s penis facing him.
- Stoke up the shaft of his penis in a continuous motion.
- When you reach the head of his penis, twist your hand slightly as if you were carefully opening a jar. Don’t twist until you reach the head of his penis. When twisting maintain as much contact as possible with the palm of your hand and the head of his penis for the best effect.
- After the twist your thumb will now be facing you and the back of your hand will be facing your husband. Come down the shaft of his penis with your thumb and index finger touching.
- When you reach the base of his penis immediately start the cycle over again with your other hand. It’s very important that when you switch from one hand to the other that it’s a continuous flow of sensation.
- Repeat steps 4-7 in a continuous motion while alternating hands.
Note: This post is part of our Giving a Great Hand Job Series.
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Shae says
I’ve tried this a couple of times and it hurt him. Obviously I’m not doing it right but kind of hesitant to try it again.
Marriage Bed Tips says
If he’s uncircumcised, you’ll have to pull back his foreskin and use lots of lube.